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To Whine
or Not To Whine
by
Jimmy Walter |
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To whine or not
to whine: that is the question:
Whether 'tis merely in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of exaggerated misfortune,
Or to take reason against a charade of catastrophes,
And by disputing end them? To see: to awake;
No more; and by awaking to say we end
The heart-ache and the thousand imagined shocks
That ego is heir to. 'Tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wished. To see, to awake;
To awake: perchance to soar: aye there's delight;
For in that dawn of insight what heights may come
when we have shuffled off our moral foil,
must give us hope. There's the respect
That makes equanimity for a long life;
For who would care about the whips and scorns of mistresses,
The oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely,
The pangs of disprized lust, the law's delay,
The insolence of office, and the time
That patient merit of the unworthy takes,
When he himself might his own mind quiet
With but a fair appraisal? Who wouldn't old farts bear,
And laugh and play even under a weary life,
Since logic slays the dread of anything here or after death,
That undiscovered country from whose bourn
No traveler returns (Hawaii, Tahiti, perhaps Fuji?), frees the
will,
And let's us bear rather well those ills we have
Than fly to others that we imagine less?
Thus intellect doth make heroes of us all;
And thus the native hue of disillusion
Is taken o'er by the hale heart of thought,
And enterprises of great pith and moment
With this regard their currents surge then fly,
and take the name of action. |
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My favorite poems are: |
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- My
Mind to Me a Kingdom Is, by Sir Edward Dyer,
- Sestina
of the Tramp-Royal
and Epitaphs
of the War by Rudyard Kipling,
- Eternity
, Auguries
of Innocence , The
Chapel, The
Tiger and The
Angel by William Blake,
- Desire
by Sir Philip Sidney,
- They
That Have Power to Hurt, The
Quality of Mercy, No
More Be Grieved, My
Mistress' Eyes, To
Be or Not To Be by William Shakespeare,
- Know
Then Thyself, A
Little Learning, The
Coxcomb Bird, Rape
of The Lock , and The
Toillet by Alexander Pope,
- And
Yet the Books by Czeslaw Milosz
- The
Heavy Bear by Delmore Schwartz
- Ozymandias
by Percy Bysshe Shelly
- Epigram
by Samuel Taylor Coleridge,
- The
Road Not Taken by Robert Frost,
- My
Last Duchess by Robert Browning,
- Portrait
of The Artist as a Prematurely Old Man by Ogden Nash,
- When
I Was One-and-Twenty by A.E. Housman,
- A
Dream Within A Dream by Edgar Alan Poe
- What
Lips My Lips Have Kissed by Edna St. Vincent Millay
- The
Age of Wisdom by William Makepeace Thackeray
- The
Flea and Song
by John Donne
- To
His Coy Mistress by Andrew Marvell
- My
Love In Her Attire - Anonymous
- To
the Virgins, to Make Much of Time by Robert Herrick
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My Favorite
Album is Simple
Things, by Carole King. |
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My favorite artists and favorite songs are: |
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- The Eagles: Take It Easy, One of These
Nights, Sad Cafe, Hotel California, Fast Lane;
- Fleetwood Mac: Dreams; Don't Stop, Gold
Dust Woman;
- Steely Dan: Hey Nineteen, Black Friday;
- Rolling Stones: Satisfaction, Mother's
Little Helper;
- Jefferson Airplane: Revolution, Crown
of Creation, Tell Me Sweet Lies
- Billy Joel: Piano Man, Big Shot
- Escape Club: Wild, Wild West;,
- INXS: Devil Inside,;
- Nu Shooz,
- Jackson Browne: The Pretender;
- Paul Simon: 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover,
Slip Sliding Away; Feeling Groovy (59th Street Bridge Song);
- Pete Townscend: Blood, Face the Face
- Simon & Garfunkel: Sounds of Silence
- Talking Heads: Burning Down the House
- Leonard Skinard: Smell that Smell
- Ringo Starr: No, No, Song;
- Julie Brown: Big and Stupid
- Arlo Guthrie: Alice's Restaurant,
Los Angeles,
- Grateful Dead: Friend of the Devil
- ZZ Top: Pressure, Sharp Dressed Man,
Legs,
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Favorite Quotes |
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NO HURRYING |
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Most
men pursue pleasure with such breathless haste. They hurry past
it.
-Soren Kierkegaard |
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This is caused by trying to do too much. Less is
more. Slow gives you control. The person who dies with the most
toys was a sucker, a loser. He/she didn't have time to unwrap
them, must less enjoy them. But they had to store and otherwise
worry about them. The pleasure always comes from inside your head
- pleasures and pains are drugs your own body produces. Most are,
technically, under your control to a large extent. Technically
means that you can, if you know how, do the homework, and practice.
practice, practice. Its well worth it. |
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The dillusion of punishment is that it
changes behavior at the lowest cost.
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People Will
Avoid Punishment; but They Will Seek Reward! |
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Happiness is
Enjoying the Moderate Life.
Economics is The Conservation of Labor.
Wealth is Happiness and Economics. |
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"If
you have done good or bad unto the least of these
(anyone, criminal or saint), you have done it unto God." |
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Of what we consume, over 90% is
spit out by factories so fast it's a blur going by as a few
tech's hope something will break the boredom and keep their
jobs secure. Even farms are massive automated factories. These
factories create the wealth we consume. They are connected together
by a network of roads, rails, and air routes where, again, the
very few provide the labor needed to transport what the whole
human race consumes. Robotics and computers are taking
over all labor and paperwork and could do it sooner, if the
world willed it. Yet we have a world economy that only sputters
along with billions in perpetual poverty, poverty decreed
as necessary by the world bank and our nations' banks.
Government is the cause and cure. Lack of planning,
energy waste, the automobile, traumatization of the young, and
self-destructive economic beliefs are the problems. If
we designed cities to minimize travel costs and provide superior
service, you would eliminate over 20% of the time you NEED to
work, 10% for commuting and 10% for shopping for yourself. If
we eliminate office space construction, maintenance, etc., you
pick up another 20%. If home offices and home delivery were
easy; if you knew you, the spouse, and/ or the kids would get
where and when you like and be supervised by you on closed circuit
TV if you want , would you even want a car? ... your very own
suicide machine, expensive to buy and maintain, that makes you
prey to bankers, police, lawyers, insurance agents, mechanics,
painters, oil cartels, etc.?
f we fully utilize heat now wasted in the production
of electricity or goods for other manufacturing, absorption
refrigeration (refrigeration from heat like in an RV), heating
water and buildings, etc., we eliminate another 20% of the time
you need to work. If we eliminate interest, lawyers, and tax
accounting while making the government not waste our time to
cut it costs, we eliminate another 10% of what we have to do
for a net savings of 70% of our time, probably more!
Walden 3 is a utopian love story on how to turn
a prison into a city state where luxury abounds. Four ordinary
people and a robot battle reactionary forces, becoming heroes,
finding happiness by using Dr.
Albert Ellis' scientific stoicism, REBT (see also Rational-Emotive-Behaviorism
Theory). The city, New Georgia, LLC., for a few thousand
dollars a year takes prisoners and rehabilitates him/her. They
use voluntary behaviorism supported by total electronic recording
of all space and all financial transactions with instant justice,
without medieval punishments or 20th century prison/torture
cells. They sell the prisoners on the system because the exit
strategy is a full life with a job for life. They effectively
and economically deter and correct destructive behavior in a
secure, happy environment with motivation and plenty for all.
Government run, engineered cities and industries
provide a cradle-to-grave social system with luxury for all.
Since competition between companies in basic commodities and
services is of little value and can cause great dislocations
and degradation of service when one competitor collapses or
one takes over, the city runs electricity generation, sewer,
roads, communications, and mass transportation. These same industries
reach great service levels due to the incentives to management
based on a composite of labor savings and customer satisfaction
-- rather than merely the most money "earned". People rate each
service (a type of voting) affecting them, setting part of the
pay of that service's personnel; thereby controlling those
who serve them.
Entrepreneurs are encouraged. Free enterprise that
does not warp society is welcomed. So are artists. None depend
on the whim of the rich nor fear the banker's knock on their
door.
We have the technology. We have the resources. The
math is easy; most of what the vast majority or people do today
has nothing to do with what we actually consume. We can become
entrepreneurs, craftsman, arts, entertainers, scientists, whatever......,
when we as a society decide
it is time!
What kind of future do you want? One of "hard work"
and sacrifices that "teach" us to be noble? It hasn't so far.
Or would you rather have employers begging for employees and
making sacrifices to get you to go to work? Things can always
be better - or declared great today. |
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You
really like Complaining,
all that attention and sympathy.
Don't you!?
Give up your addiction to sympathy, to their opinion. |
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Let's make a
bet. I'll give you $1000 for each time in
your life that you said something was awful and
it was at least very bad. You, however, have to
give me $1 for each time it was NOT really bad. I
hope you have a lot of money. If you tell yourself it
is horrible, you will feel horrible. And 99.99% of the time
it is not even close to horrible or awful.
Dispute how " horrible" your life is and it will
no longer be horrible! |
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Happiness
REQUIRES Happy Thoughts.
It's like the movie "The Matrix":
Words, thoughts, and beliefs are emotion "bullets".
They can only hurt you IF you believe they "should".
You can stop them in mid-air if you concentrate well enough.
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Pursue
Balanced Pleasure!
Plan your life!
Set realistic goals, including time for fun and family.
Make daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly schedules for
your life. |
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Force Yourself
to Start. |
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Never put
your self-worth or rewards in someone else's hands.
If you do, then "they" will control you: your life, your happiness!
Their opinion is just their opinion.
If they see it moves you, they will manipulate you with it.
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Celebrate
the wonder of life and your life will be wonderful. |
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Control
Comes From Planning, Practicing, and Rewarding.
Practice, Practice, Practice.
You have to retrain yourself. You only fail if you quit. "There
is no finish line." "Life is not a rehearsal."
"You don't get your money back" |
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Less
Is More
"He who dies with the most toys" LOSES
He or she was addicted to acquisition; did not have time to
play with them;
but he or she still had to worry about storing them, maintaining
them, insurance, envy, etc. |
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Accept
Life
Dispute - Don't Vent!
Dispute how "Horrible" everything is
and you will feel better. Venting just makes you feel worse,
again. It, you, and "they" are Never going to be perfect.
Dispute the need to be perfect. Complaining about things not
being perfect won't change anything and summons up bad feelings
again, and again. Disputing their horror makes them shrink in
importance and eventually go away. It, you, and "they" are Never
going to be perfect. You don't NEED perfect. Complaining won't
change anything and makes you live through bad things again. |
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Don't Punish
yourself!
Don't put yourself down!
Punishment will stop you. |
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Celebrate,
Reward yourself for each step!
It's the secret ingredient!
Do a victory dance! I'm serious. Give us a Victory Shout! -
you've started!
You dance around and yell over some silly game which you cannot
affect and does not have any affect on your life!
This will change your life and your attitude, your happiness!
Now you've started, It's just a matter
of time. |
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Don't quit because
this has been proven to work.
YOU WILL BECOME Happy! |
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Remarks
on my father's death, January 6, 2000 |
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